For anyone who cannot get enough of c/o stories, I found the following books on the subject: "Hoe vertel ik het mijn ouders" by Francois de Waal Aramith Publishers in Bloemendaal 1993,ISBN 906834112X. (Dutch) Coming out stories as told by famous Dutch gays & lesbians. Frank preface in which the author implies strongly that there are many well-known figures in Dutch society and politics who are still too scared to come out. Deals mainly with the relationships with parents, reactions in the environment of the gay person. "Revelations" edited by Wayne Curtis Alyson publications Boston 1988, 40 Plympton street, Boston Mass 02118, ISBN 1-55583-143-5 (English/American) Deals with c/o stories of unknown US-gays. Contains more juicy stuff than the Dutch book. The "Dutch gay soccerplayer" in "Hoe vertel.." turned out to be a referee. Bert Schuur sb_bsr@gevek2.ges.getronics.nl Amsterdam "Gay capital of Europe" "Host to Europride 1994" "Host to the 1998 Gay Games"