Date: Thu, 08 Dec 94 21:57:02 (See credit below) Suggested Reading List on Domestic Violence Battered Wives, Revised, Updated by Del Martin (Volcano Press 1976, 1981) A classic text which was one of the first books to address domestic violence. Martin documents domestic violence in its entirety: the social constructs that facilitate men abusing and women staying, how legal services and social services can work against the victim, and how shelters work. The Battered Woman by Lenore Walker (Harper and Row 1979) Walker explores the myths and realities about battered women. She explains the dynamics of learned helplessness and the cycle of violence within the relationship. Includes chapters on safe houses, legal and medical alternatives and psychotherapy for women in abusive relationships. The Battered Woman Syndrome by Lenore Walker Ed.D. (Springer 1984) An update of her previous book, Walker includes psychosocial characteristics of battered women and their abusers. Contains chapters on the impact of violence in the home on children, the correlation of alcohol and drug use and violence and psychological and legal responses to changing violent relationships. The Burning Bed by Faith McNulty (Harcourt, Brace Jovanovich, 1980) Based on the true story of Francine Hughes who, after suffering years of chronic abuse, burned her husband to death while he slept. A detailed chronicle of the interactions and events between husband and wife, this book illuminates the reader as to how this woman could commit murder. Called To Account: The Story of One Family's Struggle to Say No to Abuse by M'Liss Switzer and Katherine Hale (Seal Press 1984, 1987) A personal account of a Minnesota woman who after twenty years of abuse held her husband accountable and helped him change his violent behavior. Dating Violence: Young Women in Danger by Barrie Levy (Seal Press 1991) Anthology of personal stories, critiques by researchers and social analysts, intervention strategies and education and prevention projects. Domestic Tyranny: The Making of American Social Policy Against Family Violence from Colonial Times to the Present by Elizabeth Pleck (Oxford University Press 1987) Documents the attention given to domestic violence from the first American reform against family violence in 1641 to the more recent feminist-led, battered women's movement and the different forces that have shaped social reform. Every Eighteen Seconds: A Journey Through Domestic Violence by Nancy Kilgore (Volcano Press 1992) Written as a series of letters to her son, Kilgore explains her abusive relationship with her husband. At the end of each letter there is are exercises to educate and help the reader understand her own abusive relationship. Feminist Perspectives on Wife Abuse Edited by Kersti Yll* and Michele Bograd (Sage Publications, Inc. 1988) An anthology of researchers and activists who present empirical data and narrative testimony on aspects of male violence against women from criminology to the Stockholm syndrome. Getting Free: You Can End Abuse and Take Back Your Life by Ginny NiCarthy (Seal Press 1986) Comprehensive workbook for battered women which delves into all aspects of intimate violence from the social aspects of abuse to self-help activities to getting professional help to restarting your life after you have left. Also has chapters on lesbian violence and teenage dating violence. Healing Your Life: Recovery from Domestic Violence by Candace Hennekens (Pro Writing Services and Press 1991) Written by a formerly battered woman, this self-help book examines the emotional aspects of being a battered woman and the steps to take to leave an abusive relationship. Also offers suggestions on how to build a healthy relationship. Learning to Live Without Violence: A Handbook for Men by Daniel Jay Sonkin, Ph.D and Michael Durphy, M.D. (Volcano Press 1989) Workbook with exercises for men to help them work through anger constructively and change their behavior within an intimate relationship. Includes starting a self-help group. Naming the Violence: Speaking Out About Lesbian Battering Edited by Kerry Lobel for the National Coalition Against Domestic Violence Lesbian Taskforce (Seal Press 1986) Anthology of personal stories and the community-organizing strategies to support and empower battered lesbians. Next Time She'll Be Dead: Battering and How To Stop It by Ann Jones (Beacon Press 1994) Analyzes the attitudes and institutions in society which contribute to domestic violence. Chapters deal with how the legal system leaves women unprotected, how language contributes to blaming the woman and what can be done by different branches of society to eradicate the problem. The Ones Who Got Away: Women Who Left Abusive Partners by Ginny NiCarthy (Seal Press 1987) Thirty-three edited interviews from a diverse group of formerly battered women and their advice. Sourcebook for Working with Battered Women by Nancy Kilgore (Volcano Press 1992) Written by a formerly battered woman who is now an educator on domestic violence, this manual offers suggestions on working with battered women, facilitating support groups and provides the necessary supplemental material. Trauma and Recovery by Judith Lewis Herman, M.D. (Basic Books 1992) Documents research findings on traumatized people, including combat veterans, victims of political terror as well as victims of sexual and domestic violence. Contains chapters on childhood trauma and the experience of and defense used during chronic terror. Violence Against Women: The Bloody Footprints Edited by Pauline B. Bart and Eileen Geil Moran (Sage Press 1993) A broad-based anthology which analyzes violence against women in the home, in the workplace and in the streets. Covers different types of violence, structural supports for violence and the politics of institutional responses to violence. Violent No More: Helping Men End Domestic Abuse by Michael Paymar (Hunter House 1993) Written by a training coordinator at the Duluth Domestic Abuse Intervention Project, this guide uses stories of both previously violent men and abused women, cultural explanations and self-help exercises to help men dealing with the issue of domestic violence change their behavior. When Love Goes Wrong: What to do When You Can't Do Anything Right by Ann Jones and Susan Schechter (HarperPerennial 1992) Based on their work with women in abusive relationships, Jones and Schechter offer an analysis of controlling partners as well as concrete information on options women have in or out of the relationship, how they can find safety and support and a list of resources. When Battered Women Kill by Angela Browne (Free Press 1987) Focuses on the patterns of violence in relationships involving the physical abuse of women by their male partners and the unfolding of events that lead to homicide committed by the woman victim. Also has chapters on the psychology of intimate relationships and the legal system. When "I Love You" Turns Violent by Scott A. Johnson (New Horizon Press, 1993) In a clear and easy-to-understand style, this book provides definitions and examples of physical and emotional abuse. It describes the escalation and cycling of abuse as well as how abuse is learned. The emotional issues for the abuser and the victim that generally accompany the violence are contrasted with the emotional environment of a healthy relationship. Women and Male Violence: The Visions and Struggles of the Battered Women's Movement by Susan Schechter (South End Press 1982) As an activist and social service provider, Schechter documents the movement's history and growth. Offers feminist analysis of violence in the home as well as the involvement of the judicial system and government in this social issue. You Can Be Free: An Easy-To-Read Handbook for Abused Women by Ginny NiCarthy and Sue Davidson (Seal Press 1989) Based on Getting Free, this simply-written workbook for battered women covers all aspects of violence from defining the abuse to getting professional help from doctors, lawyers and the police. Also has chapters on lesbian violence and teenage dating violence. Compiled by Susan Chalfin and Karen Michelle Mirko. *Please credit if reposting* Gay/Lesbian Domestic Violence Bibliography Books: 1. "Men Who Beat the Men Who Love Them: Battered Gay Men & Domestic Violence" by David Island and Patrick Letellier. New York, NY: Harrington Park Press, 1991. 2. "Naming the Violence: Speaking Out About Lesbian Battering" edited by K. Lobel. Seattle, WA: Seal Press, 1986. 3. "Violent Betrayal: Partner Abuse in Lesbian Relationships" by Claire Renzetti. Newbury Park, CA: Sage Publications, Inc., 1992. Magazine Articles: 1. "When Gays Batter Their Partners" by David Tuller. San Francisco, CA: The San Francisco Chronicle, January 3, 1994. 2. "Not So Different, After All" by Patricia King. New York, NY: Newsweek, October 4, 1993. 3. "The Violence at Home" by Katrin Snow. Los Angeles, CA: The Advocate, June 4, 1992. 4. "Battered Husbands--Domestic Violence in Gay Relationships" by Michael Szymanski. Los Angeles, CA: Genre Magazine, Fall 1991. 5. "The Scourge of Domestic Violence" by David Island, PhD. and Patrick Letellier, MA. Gaybook, #9. San Francisco, CA: Rainbow Ventures, Inc., Winter 1990. 6. "Battered Lovers--The Hidden Problem of Gay Domestic Violence", Los Angeles, CA: The Advocate, March 4th, 1986.