Date: Sun, 26 Jun 1994 12:32:20 EDT From: PMDAtropos@aol.com [ Send replies and comments to raemo@ITSA.UCSF.EDU only. DO NOT reply to PMDAtropos@aol.com ] The queer rights movement is at a fork in the road. For too many years, we have taken the "right" road and pined for acceptance by the world community. We believed that if we played by their rules, then our "rights" would come to us. If we "clean up our act", we are told, then we can prove that we are "normal". We are just like straights, except for who we sleep with. Just like them... We should be allowed to join the military and prove our patriotism and our love for a country that wants us dead. We should be able to marry and have the same financial benefits that they enjoy. Our mimicry of their institutions is destroying our movement. If we fail to recognize and celebrate our diversity and settle for merely being "tolerated", then we will continue to be considered expendable. We are not on this planet to be taken for granted... We are supposed to tell the drag queens and the leather men to go away, pack up their sequins and whips, that they're not welcome here. The supposed child molesters among us are the first to be sent to the guillotine, then who knows who is next. How quickly those who are in power forget that our people are made up of queens, butch lesbians, bisexual hippies, radical faeries, transexual sex-workers, lesbian separatists, queer anarchists, witches, queer punks, pagans and everyone else who is concerned with being themselves. Out, loud, and proud...Ridding our family of these "blemishes" will not get the sexphobic, racist, hypocrits off of our backs The right-wingers still want to haul us off to concentration camps no matter what color lipstick we wear or what gym we work out at. It's time to wake up and realize that those in power in the gay and straight community are not interested in much else besides continuing the status quo. Those who say that they have our interests at heart are merely looking to coopt and subvert our movement of sexual liberation. Next time anyone purports to say "I support queer rights", ask them what action they have taken to back up their claims. Buying a tee-shirt or writing a check is a poor substitute for real physical action. Maybe the best thing for this fucked up family of ours is to let the right-wingers win in their quest to eliminate us through their ballot initiatives. Then maybe we'll get off our well-toned asses and do something to stop them. Then maybe the gyms, the bars, the baths, and the clothing stores will empty out. Those people who are not comfortable outside the confines of the gay ghetto had better wake up. There are too many of us absorbed in the "lifestyles", and not enough people committed to creating any sort of future for the movement. The segregation of gays into a ghetto mentality has cut off queer liberation from its potential to liberate all sexuality in all of its forms. Next year take your vacation in Nebraska instead of Fire Island or the Russian River and find out about tolerance. All those credit cards and no freedom, except the ability to buy a future of privilege. The purchase of "freedom rings" does NOTHING to to stop years of homophobia. They say the oppressed make the worst oppressors. It's working... Our 250,000 dead brothers and sisters we have buried are turning over in their graves if we merely allow ourselves to give up and settle for mere respectability. The mass death that has cast its shadow upon the doors of most of our friends has something to do with our apathy and sadness. Let's grieve together and get on with the job at hand. Sitting on our asses waiting for our rights will merely bring more of us closer to the obituary pages. Some of us will not be lucky enough to make it into the newspaper. They will die alone and afraid. Others will from alcoholism, drug abuse, teenage suicide and lonliness. Too much smoke and not enough fire... If you're going to Stonewall to party...forget it...go there to do something constructive. Go to NYC to send a wake up call. That we are not all "normal" boring, straight-acting and self-hating. While the term "queer" causes some people to cringe at its meaning, it's time to take the term back and start really playing the part. Let's get fired up. Let's remind everyone who we really are and what we stand for. Our visibility can create a spirit in which diversity is celebrated and cherished rather than shunned and despised all for the sake of being tolerated. Show your sisters and brothers that you love them and that you will not allow anyone else to define our agenda. Let the world know that queers come in all shapes, sizes, genders, sexualities, and colors. Wear your best drag, whether sequins or leather, or wear nothing at all...It's liberation time, sisters and brothers, NOT assimilation time; that was last year's news at The March on Washington. So leave the freedom rings at home. We must realize that the potential for real radical change in our movement. It is worth the long hard fight so that we might create some hope for a human future based on love, diversity, and true liberation. copyright- Timothy Buttercup- p.o. box 420164-SF,CA 94142