Date: Mon, 8 May 1995 19:16:52 -0700 From: listserv@netcom.com What is DykeNet? DykeNet is a DYKESPACE mailing list. DykeNet is a dyke-positive, flame-free, and bigot-free space for wimmin who identify as DYKES. DykeNet's purpose is to provide a fun, friendly, and relaxed online community where we can freely discuss topics relevant to our lives as dykes -- seriously or humorously, one-lined or epic-length -- in an atmosphere that is fun, cooperative and supportive. DykeNet was created as an alternative to other lists where flaming is the rule, rather than the exception. DykeNet is an exercise in FLAME-FREE list relations, intended to provide a space where it is SAFE to post from the heart without the fear of being harrassed, humiliated, or otherwise subjected to undue hostility. It's not perfect, by all means -- but many feel it is better than the alternatives that currently exist. Everyone subscribing to DykeNet is asked to do their part to keep DykeNet peaceful, safe, and supportive. Discussions on DykeNet must be conducted in a civil and non-threatening manner. It's a give-and-take scenario that takes some tact, diplomacy, compromise, and a LOT of work... and it's not necessarily everyone's cup of tea. Membership is open to dykes only -- no exceptions! For the purpose of this list, a "dyke" is defined as "Genetic Grrrl" dykes and post-op MTF dykes. It also includes GG and post-op MTF bi-dykes. Anyone found to be anything other than the above will be unsubscribed immediately. Regarding the inclusion of post-op TS dykes and bi-dykes: This has been the subject of several rather intense discussions on the list. While the opinions of all individuals are respected, DykeNet's inclusion policy is simply not up for debate. (Note: TS-specific issues unrelated to our lives as dykes are inappropriate for discussion on this list, as are discussions regarding boyfriends or intimate relations with men.) DykeNet is a PRIVATE and CLOSED list. Postings to DykeNet are not hand-approved. Only subscribers may post to DykeNet. Subscription requests are individually approved by Raelani! and Teri, your humble list moderators, and their decision is final. Subscription requests from men will be deleted without comment. Finally: Contributors to DykeNet are expected to be responsible in their contributions, as outlined above. Messages consisting primarily of flames, hostility, harrassment, personal attacks, or which have little or no relevance to the group or ongoing discussion(s) are inappropriate and may be grounds for removal from the list. Individuals who repeatedly bait, antagonize, or harrass other list member -- publically or in e-mail -- may also be removed from the list. If you have any problem at all with any of these policies, we have two suggestions: 1) Write a note to DYKENET-L-REQUEST@netcom.com, or 2) join or form a more suitable mailing list. Still want to subscribe? Cool! We regret how stuffy and rule-laden this info file has become, but it has proven necessary to maintain the purpose and integrity of DykeNet. Trust us, the list is basically a supportive and fun place to be! Like any other small community, DykeNet is not without flaws -- but it's better than most (in our humble and admittedly biased opinion). /*************************************************************************/ !! SAVE THIS MESSAGE !! TO SUBSCRIBE: Send a mail message to: LISTSERV@netcom.com The first and only line of the message (the body, not the subject line) should read: subscribe DYKENET-L your@address.here TO UNSUBSCRIBE: Send a mail message to: LISTSERV@netcom.com The first and only line of the message (the body, not the subject line) should read: unsubscribe DYKENET-L your@address.here ADMINISTRIVIA: Other administrative questions and requests should be sent to the e-mail address "DYKENET-L-REQUEST@netcom.com". POSTING MESSAGES: To post to the list, just send your post to: DYKENET-L@netcom.com It is the policy of the list maintainers not to release the names of subscribers, and to attempt to keep the list private. However, e-mail is, by nature, not completely secure, so your mileage may vary. We sincerely hope that you'll enjoy DykeNet... fasten your seatbelt, and here we go! Your benevolent List Moderators, Raelani! and Teri Kaupe-Azada P.S. Also, DykeNet has a very small and informal recipe-exchange list. Send a note to DYKENET-L-REQUEST@netcom.com and ask to be added to the Betty CrockDykes list, if you're interested! end [Last updated Thu Mar 30 21:30:11 1995]